Beauty is only skin colors.
When it dries up and the skin becomes rough and changes due to the touch of another skin.
Humans try to erase his old touch by putting as much color on his skin as possible.
Yes, they victory by covering the touches skins, but he cannot erase it from the mind.
He forgets the Skin contacts feelings. When he tries to hard more and keep distance the past incidents.
Then they keeps his dignity high and can forget the experience of skin contact then he feels purity.
A man sat down under a banyan tree near a forest after walking a long distance.
A few minutes later, he feels calm in the shade of the tree.
Sitting under the tree, he thought that if there was a bed there, he would sleep in peace.
Thinking so much, suddenly a bed came from the sky.
He thought again that it would be better if the bed came with a mattress and a pillow, and immediately mattress and pillow also fell from the sky. The man was very happy.
He again wondered if I could have some water.
While thinking so much, suddenly a bucket of water came.
He thought to himself what do I expect is coming soon?
Then he decided that What can be so impossible? Because my wife is far away, would she come and care for me ??
While he was thinking so much, suddenly his wife came down from the sky and walked towards him.
He was startled and thought that this all was magic.
This is probably a ghost.
He is probably doing all this to eat me.
Just after the judgment, his wife took the form of a ghost and ate the man.
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The way we think is sometimes getting wrong.
And the man who now lost his life was sitting under such a tree where all that man could wish for and immediately full fill his wishes.
Therefore, man should always think of bad ideas. And unfortunately, it’s happened.
Create your own Goals
Follow your own rules
Tide your own ideas
Tackle with your own good manners
You are the best other than you,
Because you are only one Piece of this world.
So why compare another ideas, colour, and working style etc.
You are the genuine
Don’t give up
And keep it up
And
Stop comparing yourself to others,
You are only on this planet to be “You”
Not someone else imitation of you.
अंग्रेज में डस्टबिन
तो सीधी भाषा में
कचरे का डिब्बा
नाम में ही बदनामी
सहता आया हूं
कई अरसो से
हूं में बद नसीब
केबल गंदगी
में मेरा जीना है
जीवन भर के लिए ।
काश यह जिंदगी
बदल जाती मेरी
नई सोच
स्वच्छ भारत ने मुझे
मेरे अंग को अलग करके
गीला और सुखा
में बदला
मगर लोगों की
नजरे इतनी बुरी है की
फर्क समझ में नहीं आता
कब यह लोग सुधरेंगे ?
ना मुझे उम्मीद है
इन लोगों से !
मुझे पता है
मेरी हैसियत
जब वह नहीं
सुधरेंगे तो
मुझे कहां बदलने देंगे
में जैसा था वैसा ही रहूंगा
क्यों की में हूं
कचरे का डिब्बा
अंग्रेज में बोलते हैं डस्टबिन…
Today two to three people reached home. Because to buy Kalicharan Babu’s old scooter. A few days ago, Kalicharan Babu’s son Ranu saw an advertisement on TV. If you sell an old scooter before 2000 model, some major companies will pay lakhs of rupees for the scooter. Ranu informed them that the companies customer people reached today.
Meanwhile, Kalicharan Babu first looked at his son in anger and could not answer what to say to them because they have come from very far location. Kalicharan Babu sat on the chair lying on the porch and request to three other people to sit on the chair as guests. Pinky and Ranu’s quarrel started inside the house. Pinky says you don’t know what. This scooter was given to our father by his father, that mean our grandfather. You are asking him before ?? how to sell without asking father ??? Besides mother, Asha Devi said. Don’t fight each other Father will solve the case. Then all three of them stood at the corner of the door of the house and began to listen
said one of them. Obligation We agree to pay you Rs.2 lakhs in exchange for this scooter. What is your opinion? Kalicharan Babu said. A scooter is my father’s most valuable gift. If you have come so far, I have no intention of sending you back. You will forgive me, I will not sell this scooter.
One of the guys who bought the scooter said why did your son ask us to come our house and its 500 km away?? We have reached here today by wasting our precious time. Kalicharan did not speak once more. I am said to you once again on behalf of my son that he will regret the mistake he has made. But you can go now.
Ranu came and explained to his father, dad why are you refusing ? Father got up in anger. One of them stood up again. Your son is right and you can take time to think we will wait. Kalicharan babu said no sir you can go now, sorry I m not sell this scooter.
Finally, they returned. Kalicharan Babu came inside the house and explained to Ranu. That some things are worth more than real money. I know that if I sell this scooter, the poverty of our household will be alleviated for a few days but then we will not be happy anymore. Hearing this, everyone in the house stood with their heads bowed. Everyone obeyed the words of Kalicharan Babu.
Currently, the scooter is lying as an unreal old guest in the house. This scooter reminds Kalicharan Babu’s childhood days and some travel stories with his father on this scooter.
Kalicharan Babu says everything in the world is possible with money but holding on to the unique memories of your childhood and home is the most valuable asset.
A person feels inferior when someone equal to him is promoted to a higher position or a job.
Then he feels so weak that he does not hesitate to die.
You know the worst feeling is when your partner repeatedly talks about your necklace in front of you.
And they don’t hesitate to speak up in front of you. Life is an examination.
It is not true that everyone will win. We cannot survive from such types of people.
That’s always the same case. Sometimes you want to go and give him two slaps on the cheek, but the conscience gets up and says, Hey brother, people will say that, and that’s his job.
If not say so. So what can he do? But they cannot struggle like you.
The world cannot bet on itself to achieve victory like you.
Because those who are lazy and lazy will never do or allow anyone to do or will never want to see others happy.
A person is lost till then and decides to make a mistake, but the dawn of hope gives him the courage to climb the ladder of victory again.
And once again he starts praying from the beginning.
So if you are also lost then try to climb the stairs again.
You too can taste the taste of victory. Never give up on yourself. Once again my best wishes that you can show the world.
Don’t feel weak. Because if a man loses once, he loses in all situations of the world.
Wake up again. Prepare yourself and wake up once again to face the world.
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ଆପଣଙ୍କର ଦୈନନ୍ଦିନ ଜୀବନକୁ ଉନ୍ନତ କରିବା ପାଇଁ ସାତୋଟି ବାର୍ତ୍ତା :
୧. ବାହାର ଖାଦ୍ୟ ପାଇଁ କମ୍ ଖର୍ଚ୍ଚ କରନ୍ତୁ (ବିଶେଷକରି ଆପଣ ପ୍ରତିଦିନ ଖର୍ଚ୍ଚ କରୁଥିବା ଚା ଏବଂ କଫି)! ତୁମ ଘରେ ରନ୍ଧା ହେଉଥିବା ତୁମ ପାଇଁ ବହୁତ୍ ଉପଯୋଗୀ ଏବଂ ଶୁଦ୍ଧ ଖାଦ୍ୟ ଭୋଜନ ଗ୍ରହଣ କରନ୍ତୁ ।
୨. ସବୁବେଳେ ହସୁଥାଅ ଏବଂ ସର୍ବଦା ନିଜ ମୁଖରେ ହସ ହସ ଚେହେରା ରଖନ୍ତୁ ।
୩. ପ୍ରତିଦିନ ପ୍ରଚୁର ମାତ୍ରା ରେ ପାଣି ପିଅନ୍ତୁ ।
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୫. ତୁମର ଯାହା ଅଛି ସେଥିପାଇଁ ତୁମେ ଖୁସି ରେ ରହିବା ଦରକାର ଏବଂ ତୁମର ଯାହା ନାହିଁ ସେଥିପାଇଁ ଦୁଃଖ କିମ୍ବା ଅଭିଯୋଗ କର ନାହିଁ ।
୬. ପ୍ରତ୍ୟେକ ଦିନକୁ ନୂତନ ଜୀବନ ସହିତ ବଞ୍ଚିବା ଶିଖନ୍ତୁ, ସକାଳେ ଉଠି ଏବଂ ଆଜି ତୁମେ କ’ଣ ଭଲ କରିପାରିବ ତାହା ଯୋଜନା କର ଏବଂ ତା’ପରେ ଏହାକୁ କରି ଦେଖାଅ ।
୭. ଆପଣଙ୍କ ମୋବାଇଲରେ ସବୁ ନୋଟିଫିକେସନ କୁ ସର୍ବଦା ପାଇଁ ବନ୍ଦ କରନ୍ତୁ । ଫେସବୁକ୍, ଟ୍ୱିଟର, ଇନଷ୍ଟାଗ୍ରାମ, ୱାଟାସପ୍ ଇତ୍ୟାଦି ସୋସିଆଲ ମିଡିଆ ଆପ୍ଲିକେସନ କୁ ବନ୍ଦ କରନ୍ତୁ |
ତୁମର ଖୁସି ପାଇଁ ତୁମେ ନିଜେ ଅନୁଭବ କରି ପାରିବ । ତାକୁ ଉପଭୋଗ କରନ୍ତୁ।
ମଣିଷ ସେତେବେଳେ ନିଜକୁ ହିନ ମନେ କରେ ଯେବେ ନିଜ ସମତୁଲ ବ୍ୟକ୍ତି ଟେ ଉପର ପଦବୀ ଅବା କୌଣସି ଚାକିରି ରେ ପଦସ୍ତ ହୁଏ ।
ସେତେବେଳେ ସେ ନିଜକୁ ଏତେ ଦୁର୍ବଳ ମନେ କରେ ଯେ ମୃତ୍ୟୁ କରିବାକୁ ମଧ୍ୟ ପଛାଇ ନଥାଏ।
ଜାଣିଛ ସବୁଠୁ ବଡ ଖରାପ ଲାଗେ ସେତେବେଳେ, ଯେବେ ନିଜ ଲୋକ ତୁମର ହାର କୁ ବାରମ୍ବାର ଆପଣଙ୍କ ସାମ୍ନାରେ ଆଲୋଚନା କରେ।
ଏବଂ ସେମାନେ ତୁମ ସାମ୍ନାରେ କହିବାକୁ ପଛାନ୍ତି ନାହିଁ । ହେଲେ ଅସଲ ରେ ଜୀବନ ଟା ଗୋଟିଏ ପରୀକ୍ଷା ଗୃହ।
ଏଥିରେ ସମସ୍ତ ଙ୍କ ବିଜୟ ହାସଲ ହେବ ତାହା ସତ୍ୟା ସତ୍ୟ ନୁହେଁ । ହେଲେ କିଛି ଏମିତି ଲୋକଙ୍କ ଟାହି ଟାପରା ରୁ ଆମେ ବଞ୍ଚି ପାରୁ ନଥାଉ ।
ସବୁ ବେଳେ ସେହି କଥା । ବେଳେବେଳେ ଇଚ୍ଛା ହୁଏ ଯେ, ଯାଇ ତା ଗାଲରେ ଦୁଇ ଚାପୁଡ଼ା ସେକି ଦେବା ପାଇଁ କିନ୍ତୁ ବିବେକ କହି ଉଠେ, ଆରେ ଭାଇ ଛାଡ ଲୋକ ଏମିତି କହିବେ, ଆଉ ତାଙ୍କର କାମ ତାହା ।
ଯଦି ସେମିତି କହିବେ ନାହିଁ । ତେବେ ସେ ଅବା କଣ କରି ପାରିବେ। ମାତ୍ର ତୁମ ଭଳି ସଂଘର୍ଷ କରି ପାରିବେ ନାହିଁ।
ତୁମ ଭଳି ବିଜୟ କୁ ହାସଲ କରିବା ପାଇଁ ଦୁନିଆ ଆଗରେ ନିଜକୁ ବାଜି ଲଗାଇ ପାରିବେ ନାହିଁ।
କାରଣ ଯେଉଁମାନେ ଅଳସୁଆ ଆଉ ନିର୍ଲଠ ସେମାନେ ନା କେବେ କରିବେ ନା କାହାକୁ କରିବାକୁ ଦେବେ ନା କେବେ ଅନ୍ୟକୁ ଖୁସିରେ ଦେଖିବାକୁ ଚାହିଁବେ ।
ହେଲେ ମଣିଷ ଟା ସେତେବେଳେ ପର୍ଯ୍ୟନ୍ତ ହାରିଯାଇ ଥାଏ ଆଉ ଭୁଲ କରିବାକୁ ନିଷ୍ପତି ନିଏ କିନ୍ତୁ ଆଶାର ଉଦୟ ପୁଣି ଆଲୋକ ପ୍ରଦାନ କରି ତା ମନରେ ପୁନଃ ବିଜୟ ର ପାହାଚ ଚଢ଼ିବାକୁ ସାହସ ଦିଏ ।
ଆଉ ସେ ପୁଣି ଥରେ ପ୍ରଥମ ରୁ ଚଢିବା ଆରମ୍ଭ କରେ ।
ତେବେ ଆପଣ ମଧ୍ୟ ଯଦି ହାରି ଛନ୍ତି ତେବେ ପୁଣି ପାହାଚ ଚଢ଼ିବାକୁ ଚେଷ୍ଟା କର।
ବିଜୟ ର ସ୍ଵାଦ ଆପଣ ମଧ୍ୟ ଚାଖି ପାରିବେ। କେବେ ନିଜକୁ ହାର ମାନନ୍ତୁ ନାହିଁ । ମୋ ତରଫରୁ ପୁଣି ଥରେ ହାର୍ଦ୍ଧିକ ଶୁଭେଚ୍ଛା ଯେ , ଆପଣ ଦୁନିଆ କୁ କରି ଦେଖାଇ ପାରିବେ ।
ନିଜକୁ ଦୁର୍ବଳ ମନେ କରନ୍ତୁ ନାହିଁ । କାରଣ ମଣିଷ ଯଦି ଥରେ ହାରି ଯାଏ ସେ ଦୁନିଆ ର ସମସ୍ତ ପରିସ୍ଥିତି ରେ ହାରି ଥାଏ ।
ପୁନଃ ଜାଗ୍ରତ ହୁଅ। ନିଜକୁ ପ୍ରସ୍ତୁତ କର ଏବଂ ଦୁନିଆ କୁ ସାମ୍ନା କରିବାକୁ ପୁଣି ଥରେ ଜାଗ୍ରତ ହୁଅ ।
Some relationships are “showy” in front of people, but not in private and intimate relationships.
Is it true that!!! 80 percent of married couples spend their days like this??? So this question was asked me by a close friend of mine.
He asked me a few days before this question and I said to him give me a few days I will find out all your answers
Then I took about 10 days and in these 10 days, I called more than 17 friends and asked them whether their marriage is just a showy or a good relationship.
I got my answer and gave it to my friend but the answer was that…
In my question, 3 of my friends to a companion that we are very happy with our marriage and are respected, and have a sense of self-worth.
No problem whatsoever.
5 friends said that yes we are fine, but they are sad. They are not happy.
And 10 people said that yes, brother, if there is a relationship, there is no respect from the wife, and not only that, there is no respect for their family.
Do you know why this is happening?
A person makes a mistake and he makes a mistake for some reason and he holds the reason of the mistake to his relatives and his life partner and keeps saying that thing again and again throughout his life.
One day half of it goes away but if you say that every day then it will create a rift in the relationship and with that, the relationship will also deteriorate. The entire dust becomes seven.
So some people choose the solution of such problems very quickly.
And how many live like this for the rest of their lives. They say that if not today, tomorrow will be fixed, but it can’t be.
And some people do not hesitate to lose their lives. So what should be done?
You need to find a solution soon and you need to be happy like those three friends if you don’t find a solution, you will spend your whole life holding on to one mistake.
So what do you think, time is precious. The more you delay, the more the problem can be. Some problems are solved gradually and some are never solved.
To find a solution as soon as possible without wasting your time.
thank you
କିଛି ସମ୍ପର୍କ ଲୋକ ଙ୍କ ଆଗରେ ତିଷ୍ଠି ରହେ ମାନେ “ଦେଖାଣିଆ” କିନ୍ତୁ ଘରୋଇ ଏବଂ ଆନ୍ତରିକ ସମ୍ମାନ ତିଷ୍ଠି ରହି ପାରେନା ।
କଣ ଏହା ସତ ଯେ !!! 80 ପ୍ରତିଶତ ବିବାହ ଯୋଡ଼ା ଏମିତି ଦିନ କାଟୁଛନ୍ତି ??? ତେବେ ଏହି ପ୍ରଶ୍ନ ମୋର ଜଣେ ଅନ୍ତରଙ୍ଗ ବନ୍ଧୁ ମୋତେ ପଚାରିଲେ ???
ମୋତେ ଏହି ପ୍ରଶ୍ନ ର ଉତ୍ତର ଦେବାକୁ ଯାଇ ମୁଁ କିଛି ଦିନ ସମୟ ମାଗି କହିଲି ମୋତେ କିଛି ଦିନ ଦିଅ ମୁଁ ତୁମର ସବୁ ଉତ୍ତର ଖୋଜି ବାହାର କରୁଛି ।
ତାପରେ ମୁଁ ପ୍ରାୟ ୧୦ ଦିନ ସମୟ ନେଲି ଏବଂ ଏହି ଦଶ ଦିନରେ ପ୍ରାୟ ୧୭ ରୁ ଅଧିକ ବନ୍ଧୁ କୁ ଫୋନ୍ କରି ପଚାରିଲି ଯେ ଆପଣଙ୍କ ବୈବାହିକ ସମ୍ପର୍କ କେବଳ ଦେଖାଣିଆ ହୋଇ ଅଛି ନା ଉତ୍ତମ ସମ୍ପର୍କ ରହିଛି ।
ମୋର ଉତ୍ତର ପାଇଗଲି ଏବଂ ମୋ ବନ୍ଧୁ କୁ ଜଣେଇ ଦେଲି ମଧ୍ୟ ତେବେ ସେ ଉତ୍ତର ଥିଲା ଏହା ଯେ…
ମୋର ପ୍ରଶ୍ନରେ ୩ ଜଣ ବନ୍ଧୁ ବିଲକୁଲ ସତ କହିଲେ ଯେ ଆମେ ନିଜ ବୈବାହିକ ସମ୍ପର୍କ ପ୍ରତି ବହୁତ୍ ଖୁସି ଅଛୁ ଏବଂ ସମ୍ମାନ ମଧ୍ୟ ମିଳୁଛି ଏବଂ ନିଜର ମହତ୍ତ୍ଵ ମଧ୍ୟ ଅଛି।
କୌଣସି ପ୍ରକାର ର ଅସୁବିଧା ହୁଏ ନାହିଁ ।
୫ ଜଣ ବନ୍ଧୁ କହିଲେ ଯେ, ହଁ ଆମେ ଠିକ୍ ଅଛୁ ବୋଲି, କିନ୍ତୁ ପ୍ରକୃତରେ ସେମାନେ ଦୁଃଖରେ ଅଛନ୍ତି । ମାନେ ସେମାନେ ଖୁସିରେ ନାହାନ୍ତି ।
ଏବଂ ୧୦ ଜଣ କହିଲେ ଯେ , ହଁ ରେ ଭାଇ, ସମ୍ପର୍କ ସିନା ଅଛି ହେଲେ ସ୍ତ୍ରୀ ଆଗରେ ସମ୍ମାନ ନାହିଁ ଖାଲି ସେତିକି ନୁହେଁ ଘର ଲୋକ ଆଗରେ ମଧ୍ୟ ସମ୍ମାନ ବୋଲି କିଛି ନାହିଁ ।
ହେଲେ ଏମିତି କାହିଁକି ହୁଏ ଜାଣିଛ ।
ମଣିଷ ମାତ୍ରକେ ଭୁଲ ହୁଏ ଏବଂ ସେ କିଛି କାରଣ ବଶତଃ ଭୁଲ କରି ବସେ ଏବଂ ସେ ଭୁଲ ର କାରଣ କୁ ତାର ସମ୍ପର୍କୀୟ ଏବଂ ତାର ଜୀବନ ସାଥି ଧରି ବସନ୍ତି ଏବଂ ଜୀବନ ସାରା ସେହି କଥା କୁ ବାରମ୍ବାର କହି ଚାଲନ୍ତି ।
ଦିନେ ଅଧେ ତ ଚଳି ଯାଏ କିନ୍ତୁ ପ୍ରତ୍ୟେକ ଦିନ ଯଦି ସେହି କଥା କୁହାଯାଏ ତେବେ ସମ୍ପର୍କ ରେ ଫାଟ ସୃଷ୍ଟି ତ ହେବ, ତା ସହିତ ସମ୍ପର୍କ ମଧ୍ୟ ଖରାପ ହୋଇଯାଏ । ଇଜ୍ଜତ ତ ପୁରା ଧୂଳି ସାତ୍ ହୋଇଯାଏ।
ତେବେ କିଛି ଲୋକ ଏମିତି ସମସ୍ୟା ର ସମାଧାନ ବହୁତ୍ ଶୀଘ୍ର ବାଛି ନିଅନ୍ତି ।
ଆଉ କେତେ ଜୀବନ ସାରା ସେମିତି ରୁହନ୍ତି । କୁହନ୍ତି ଆଜି ନ ହେଲେ କାଲି ଠିକ୍ ହୋଇଯିବ କିନ୍ତୁ ହୋଇ ପାରେନା ।
ଆଉ କେତେ ଜଣ ନିଜ ଜୀବନ ହାରି ଦେବାକୁ ପଛାଉ ନାହାଁନ୍ତି। ତେବେ କଣ କରିବା ଦରକାର ?
ସମାଧାନ ର ରାସ୍ତା ଶୀଘ୍ର ଖୋଜିବା ଦରକାର ଏବଂ ମୋର ସେ ତିନି ଜଣ ବନ୍ଧୁ ଭଳି ଖୁସିରେ ରହିବା ଦରକାର ଆଉ ଯଦି ସମାଧାନ ନ ଖୋଜିବା ତେବେ ସାରା ଜୀବନ ଗୋଟିଏ ଭୁଲ କୁ ଧରି ଜୀବନ ବିତିଯିବ।
ତେବେ କଣ କରିବେ ଆପଣ, ଚିନ୍ତା କରନ୍ତୁ , ସମୟ ଅତି ମୂଲ୍ୟବାନ। ଯେତେ ଲେଟ୍ କରିବେ , ସେତେ ଅଧିକ ପ୍ରୋବେଲମ୍ ହୋଇପାରେ । କିଛି ସମସ୍ୟା ଧୀରେ ଧୀରେ ସମାଧାନ ହୋଇଯାଏ ଆଉ କିଛି କେବେ ସମାଧାନ ହେବ ନାହିଁ ।
ତେବେ ସମୟ ଆପଣଙ୍କ ର, ନଷ୍ଟ ନ କରି ଯଥା ଶୀଘ୍ର ସମାଧାନ ର ରାସ୍ତା ଖୋଜନ୍ତୁ ।
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