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କଣ ଆପଣଙ୍କ ସହିତ ମଧ୍ୟ ଏମିତି ହୁଏ କି ???

କିଛି ସମ୍ପର୍କ ଲୋକ ଙ୍କ ଆଗରେ ତିଷ୍ଠି ରହେ ମାନେ “ଦେଖାଣିଆ” କିନ୍ତୁ ଘରୋଇ ଏବଂ ଆନ୍ତରିକ ସମ୍ମାନ ତିଷ୍ଠି ରହି ପାରେନା ।

କଣ ଏହା ସତ ଯେ !!!  80 ପ୍ରତିଶତ ବିବାହ ଯୋଡ଼ା ଏମିତି ଦିନ କାଟୁଛନ୍ତି ??? ତେବେ ଏହି ପ୍ରଶ୍ନ ମୋର ଜଣେ ଅନ୍ତରଙ୍ଗ ବନ୍ଧୁ ମୋତେ ପଚାରିଲେ ???

ମୋତେ ଏହି ପ୍ରଶ୍ନ ର ଉତ୍ତର ଦେବାକୁ ଯାଇ ମୁଁ କିଛି ଦିନ ସମୟ ମାଗି କହିଲି ମୋତେ କିଛି ଦିନ ଦିଅ ମୁଁ ତୁମର ସବୁ ଉତ୍ତର ଖୋଜି ବାହାର କରୁଛି ।

ତାପରେ ମୁଁ ପ୍ରାୟ ୧୦ ଦିନ ସମୟ ନେଲି ଏବଂ ଏହି ଦଶ ଦିନରେ ପ୍ରାୟ ୧୭ ରୁ ଅଧିକ ବନ୍ଧୁ କୁ ଫୋନ୍ କରି ପଚାରିଲି ଯେ ଆପଣଙ୍କ ବୈବାହିକ ସମ୍ପର୍କ କେବଳ ଦେଖାଣିଆ ହୋଇ ଅଛି ନା ଉତ୍ତମ ସମ୍ପର୍କ ରହିଛି ।

ମୋର ଉତ୍ତର ପାଇଗଲି ଏବଂ ମୋ ବନ୍ଧୁ କୁ ଜଣେଇ ଦେଲି ମଧ୍ୟ ତେବେ ସେ ଉତ୍ତର ଥିଲା ଏହା ଯେ…

ମୋର ପ୍ରଶ୍ନରେ ୩ ଜଣ ବନ୍ଧୁ ବିଲକୁଲ ସତ କହିଲେ ଯେ ଆମେ ନିଜ ବୈବାହିକ ସମ୍ପର୍କ ପ୍ରତି ବହୁତ୍ ଖୁସି ଅଛୁ ଏବଂ ସମ୍ମାନ ମଧ୍ୟ ମିଳୁଛି ଏବଂ ନିଜର ମହତ୍ତ୍ଵ ମଧ୍ୟ ଅଛି। 

କୌଣସି ପ୍ରକାର ର ଅସୁବିଧା ହୁଏ ନାହିଁ ।

୫ ଜଣ ବନ୍ଧୁ କହିଲେ ଯେ, ହଁ ଆମେ ଠିକ୍ ଅଛୁ ବୋଲି, କିନ୍ତୁ ପ୍ରକୃତରେ ସେମାନେ ଦୁଃଖରେ ଅଛନ୍ତି । ମାନେ ସେମାନେ ଖୁସିରେ ନାହାନ୍ତି ।

ଏବଂ ୧୦ ଜଣ କହିଲେ ଯେ , ହଁ ରେ ଭାଇ, ସମ୍ପର୍କ ସିନା ଅଛି ହେଲେ ସ୍ତ୍ରୀ ଆଗରେ ସମ୍ମାନ ନାହିଁ ଖାଲି ସେତିକି ନୁହେଁ ଘର ଲୋକ ଆଗରେ ମଧ୍ୟ ସମ୍ମାନ ବୋଲି କିଛି ନାହିଁ ।

ହେଲେ ଏମିତି କାହିଁକି ହୁଏ ଜାଣିଛ ।

ମଣିଷ ମାତ୍ରକେ ଭୁଲ ହୁଏ ଏବଂ ସେ କିଛି କାରଣ ବଶତଃ ଭୁଲ କରି ବସେ ଏବଂ ସେ ଭୁଲ ର କାରଣ କୁ ତାର ସମ୍ପର୍କୀୟ ଏବଂ ତାର ଜୀବନ ସାଥି ଧରି ବସନ୍ତି ଏବଂ ଜୀବନ ସାରା ସେହି କଥା କୁ ବାରମ୍ବାର କହି ଚାଲନ୍ତି ।

ଦିନେ ଅଧେ ତ ଚଳି ଯାଏ କିନ୍ତୁ ପ୍ରତ୍ୟେକ ଦିନ ଯଦି ସେହି କଥା କୁହାଯାଏ ତେବେ ସମ୍ପର୍କ ରେ ଫାଟ ସୃଷ୍ଟି ତ ହେବ, ତା ସହିତ ସମ୍ପର୍କ ମଧ୍ୟ ଖରାପ ହୋଇଯାଏ । ଇଜ୍ଜତ ତ ପୁରା ଧୂଳି ସାତ୍ ହୋଇଯାଏ। 

ତେବେ କିଛି ଲୋକ ଏମିତି ସମସ୍ୟା ର ସମାଧାନ ବହୁତ୍ ଶୀଘ୍ର ବାଛି ନିଅନ୍ତି ।

ଆଉ କେତେ ଜୀବନ ସାରା ସେମିତି ରୁହନ୍ତି । କୁହନ୍ତି ଆଜି ନ ହେଲେ କାଲି ଠିକ୍ ହୋଇଯିବ କିନ୍ତୁ ହୋଇ ପାରେନା ।

ଆଉ କେତେ ଜଣ  ନିଜ ଜୀବନ ହାରି ଦେବାକୁ ପଛାଉ ନାହାଁନ୍ତି। ତେବେ କଣ କରିବା ଦରକାର ?

ସମାଧାନ ର ରାସ୍ତା ଶୀଘ୍ର ଖୋଜିବା ଦରକାର ଏବଂ ମୋର ସେ ତିନି ଜଣ ବନ୍ଧୁ ଭଳି ଖୁସିରେ ରହିବା ଦରକାର ଆଉ ଯଦି ସମାଧାନ  ନ ଖୋଜିବା ତେବେ ସାରା ଜୀବନ ଗୋଟିଏ ଭୁଲ କୁ ଧରି ଜୀବନ ବିତିଯିବ। 

ତେବେ କଣ କରିବେ ଆପଣ, ଚିନ୍ତା କରନ୍ତୁ , ସମୟ ଅତି ମୂଲ୍ୟବାନ।  ଯେତେ ଲେଟ୍ କରିବେ , ସେତେ ଅଧିକ ପ୍ରୋବେଲମ୍ ହୋଇପାରେ । କିଛି ସମସ୍ୟା ଧୀରେ ଧୀରେ ସମାଧାନ ହୋଇଯାଏ ଆଉ କିଛି କେବେ ସମାଧାନ ହେବ ନାହିଁ ।

ତେବେ ସମୟ ଆପଣଙ୍କ ର, ନଷ୍ଟ ନ କରି ଯଥା ଶୀଘ୍ର ସମାଧାନ ର ରାସ୍ତା ଖୋଜନ୍ତୁ ।

ଧନ୍ୟବାଦ ।

କିଛି ମନୋବିଜ୍ଞାନ ତତ୍ତ୍ଵ

@ ଯଦି ଆପଣଙ୍କ ପାର୍ଟନର ଆପଣଙ୍କୁ “ଧମକ” ଦେଉଛି ତେବେ ଏହାର ଅର୍ଥ ଯେ ତୁମ ସାଥୀ ତୁମ ସହିତ ରହିବାକୁ ଚାହୁଁ ନାହିଁ ତେବେ ତାକୁ ଏକା ଛାଡି ଦେବା ଭଲ ।


@ ଯଦି ଆପଣଙ୍କର ସାଥୀ ଆପଣଙ୍କୁ ଅଣଦେଖା କରୁଛନ୍ତି, ତେବେ ତାଙ୍କୁ ମନାଇବା ପରିବର୍ତ୍ତେ ଆପଣ ତାଙ୍କଠାରୁ କିଛି ସମୟ ଦୂରରେ ରହିବା ଉଚିତ୍ ।

@ ଅତ୍ୟଧିକ ଭକ୍ତି ଭାବ ପ୍ରେମ ତୁମର ସମ୍ମାନ ର ମୂଲ୍ୟକୁ ନଷ୍ଟ କରିପାରେ, ଆପଣଙ୍କ ପାର୍ଟନର ଯଦି ସମ୍ମାନ ଦିଏ ନାହିଁ ତେବେ ପ୍ରେମ ର ମାତ୍ରା କମ୍ କରିବା ଦରକାର।

@ କଥା ବଦଳରେ କୋମଳ ବାର୍ତ୍ତା ସହିତ ନିଜ ସାଥୀଙ୍କୁ ବୁଝେଇବା କୁ ଚେଷ୍ଟା କର, ଯଦି ଆପଣଙ୍କ ପାର୍ଟନର ଆପଣକୁ ଅଧିକ ମହତ୍ତ୍ଵ ଦିଏ ତେବେ ସେ ସମ୍ପର୍କ ସବୁ ଦିନ ପାଇଁ ତିଷ୍ଟି ରହେ ନହେଲେ ବହୁତ୍ କମ୍ ଦିନରେ ଫାଟ ସୃଷ୍ଟି ହେବା ର ସମ୍ଭାବନା ଅଛି।


@ ଯେଉଁ ସମ୍ପର୍କ ଭିତରେ ଦୁଃଖ ଏବଂ ମଧୁରତା ଭରି ରହିଥାଏ, ତାହା ମଧ୍ୟ ଦୀର୍ଘ ସମୟ ପର୍ଯ୍ୟନ୍ତ ରହେ ଏବଂ ସେ ସମ୍ପର୍କ କୁ ଅଧିକ ରୁ ଅଧିକ ଲୋକ ଈର୍ଷା ମଧ୍ୟ କରନ୍ତି।


@ ଅନାବଶ୍ୟକ ରାଗୁଥିବା ସାଥୀ ଅନ୍ୟ ସାଥୀକୁ ଶାରୀରିକ ଏବଂ ମାନସିକ ସ୍ତରରେ ବିଚଳିତ କରିପାରେ। ଭଲ ହେବ ଦୂରତା ଅବଲମ୍ବନ କରିବା ଦରକାର ।

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FB Friends

How many friends are you connected with on your own Facebook ID? At least more than 500 and some 1000.
Tell me that despite having so many friends, how many friends are there for you in your time of need.

What is the reason why there are so many friends??

why???
• It can only see your activities. You can take reports from time to time wherever you go.

• How many friends ask you about your condition? Not a single one according to me.

• Neither will try to ask you about your problem.

• Even if you tell your problem, they ignore you by looking at it.

• Actually it is a pretend friends.

• Friends are not there to help you at the time of your need, but to turn away with a smile at the time of your need.

• There are some friends who will ask for your help, but they will only ask about your well-being, after knowing your real problem, they will go offline from there.

• And there are some friends who will call you as soon as they see your problem on the post, but they will talk for a couple of minutes just to shed tears, just to feel your sorrow and not to help you.

• So what’s the point of having so many friends who don’t even stand by you.
• It is better to keep a good friend in life than a friend of show off, who would be an equal sharer in your sorrows and happiness.
• This is an article, this article was meant to show the importance of friends in the world.
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आपके अपने फेसबुक आईडी पर कितने फ्रेंड्स के साथ जुड़े हुए हो । कम से कम 500 से अधिक तो और किसीके 1000 ।
मुझे यह बताओ कि इतने सारे फ्रेंड्स होने के बाबजूद भी आपके जरूरत के समय कितने दोस्त आपके साथ खड़े हैं । 

इतने सारे फ्रेंड्स क्यों होते हैं इसका क्या कारण है ??

क्यों की ???
• यह सिर्फ आपकी गतिविधियों को देख सके । समय समय पर जहां जाते हो वहां की रिपोर्ट ले सके।

• आपको आपकी हाल के बारे मैं कितने दोस्त पूछते है ? मेरे हिसाब से एक भी नहीं ।

• ना आपकी समस्या के बारे में आपको पूछने की कोशिश करेंगे ।

• अगर आप अपनी समस्या को बता भी दो , तब भी बह देख कर अनदेखा कर देते हैं ।

• असल में यह एक दिखावा वाले फ्रेंड्स है ।

• आपकी जरूरत के समय आपकी मदद केलिए नहीं आपकी जरूरत के समय हस कर मुंह मोड़ कर चले जाने बाली फ्रेंड्स हैं ।

• कुछ फ्रेंड्स है आपकी मदद केलिए पूछेंगे मगर वो सिर्फ आपकी हालचाल पूछेंगे आपकी असल समस्या जान ने के बाद वहां से ऑफ लाइन हो जायेंगे ।

• और कुछ फ्रेंड्स हैं जो आपकी समस्या को पोस्ट पर देखते ही आपको फोन करेंगे मगर बह सिर्फ मगर की आशु बहाने केलिए एक दो मिनिट की बात करेंगे सिर्फ आपकी दुख को महसूस करने केलिए ना की आपकी मदद केलिए ।

• तो इतने सारे फ्रेंड्स होने का क्या मतलब जो एक भी आपके पास खड़े नहीं होते हैं ।
• दिखावा वाले दोस्त से बेहतर एक अच्छे दोस्त को जीवन में रखे जो आपकी दुख और सुख में बराबर हिस्सेदार होते होंगे ।
• यह एक आर्टिकल है , दुनिया में दोस्त की अहमियत को दर्शाने केलिए यह आर्टिकल था ।
पोस्ट अगर आपको अच्छा लगा हो तो जरूर शेयर करें ।

Are you married or unmarried couples

Some logic helps to your life

Logic : 1
Instead of the power of the tongue, explain to your partner with the softness of the tongue, if your lover is true then he will definitely understand you.

Logic : 2
Unnecessarily angry partner can physically and mentally disturb the other partner.

Logic : 3

Too much love can ruin your value, love only as much as the person in front can bear.

Logic : 4

If your partner is ignoring you, then instead of persuading him, you should keep distance from him for some time.

Logic : 5

The relationship which has both sourness and sweetness lasts for a long time.  Love alone is not the foundation of a relationship.

ଟଙ୍କା ର ଘମଣ୍ଡ ଦୁଇ ପ୍ରକାର ଲୋକ ପାଖରେ ଦେଖାଯାଏ

ଟଙ୍କା ର ଘମଣ୍ଡ ଦୁଇ ପ୍ରକାର ଲୋକ ପାଖରେ ଦେଖାଯାଏ
୧. *ଯିଏ ମିଛ ଏବଂ ଧୋକା ରେ ଅର୍ଜିତ କରିଥାଏ*

ଏମିତି କିଛି ଲୋକ ଅଛନ୍ତି ଯାହାର କାମ କେବଳ ମିଛ କହିବା ଏବଂ ଟଙ୍କା କମେଇବା ଏବଂ ଅଳ୍ପ କାମ କରିବେ ଏବଂ ଅଧିକ ଅର୍ଜନ କରିବାର କଳା ସେମାନଙ୍କ ପାଖରେ ବହୁତ୍ ଥାଏ । ସେମାନେ ପାପ ର ଭାଗି ତ ନିଶ୍ଚୟ ହେଉଛନ୍ତି କିନ୍ତୁ ପାଖରେ ଟଙ୍କା ଟିଏ ରହେନି। ଶେଷରେ ରୋଗ ବ୍ୟାଧି ରେ ସେ ଟଙ୍କା ଚାଲିଯାଏ ତଥାପି ସେ ମିଛ କହିବା ଛାଡେ ନାହିଁ । ନା କେବେ ଛାଡ଼ି ପାରିବ, ଏବଂ ସେମାନେ କଞ୍ଜୁସ ପ୍ରାୟ ରୁହନ୍ତି । କିନ୍ତୁ ଏହି ଟଙ୍କା ର ମହତ୍ତ୍ଵ ବେଶୀ ଦିନ ତେଜୀୟାନ୍ ହୋଇ ରହେନା ।

୨. *ଯାହାର ବାପା, ଜେଜେ ଙ୍କ ସମ୍ପତି ଅଧିକ ଥାଏ।*
ଏମିତି କିଛି ଲୋକ ମଧ୍ୟ ଦେଖିବାକୁ ପାଇବେ ଯେଉଁଠି ନିଜର ସମ୍ବଳ ନଥାଏ ଯେ ସେ କିଛି କରି ଧନ ଅର୍ଜିତ କରି ପାରିବ। ଯଦି ବାପାଙ୍କ ବେପାର ଏବଂ ଜେଜେ ଙ୍କ ଅପାର ସମ୍ପତି ରେ ନିଜର ଭାଗିଦାରୀ ଦେଖାଇ ଅନ୍ୟ କୁ ଦେଖାଇ ହୋଇ ଥାଆନ୍ତି । ସେହି ଟଙ୍କା ର ମୋହ ମଧ୍ୟ ଅଳ୍ପ ଦିନ ପାଇଁ ରହେ । ତା ପରେ ନଦୀ ବାଲି ଭଳି ସେ ମଧ୍ୟ ଧୀରେ ଧୀରେ ସରି ଯାଏ । ଶେଷରେ ବଞ୍ଚି ଯାଏ କେବଳ ଶରୀର ଟାଏ ।

ନିଜର ଟଙ୍କା ପ୍ରତି ଘମଣ୍ଡ କେବେ କରନ୍ତୁ ନାହିଁ । ନା ଟଙ୍କା କେବେ ରହିଛି ନା କେବେ ରହିବ। ଟଙ୍କା କେବେ ଚିରସ୍ଥାୟୀ ନୁହେଁ । ସେ ଆସିବ ଆଉ ଯିବ। ଆଉ ଘମଣ୍ଡ କରିବା ଲୋକ ପାଖରେ ତ କେବେ ମଧ୍ୟ ରହେନୀ ।

ଆଶା କରୁଛି ଏହି ଆର୍ଟିକଲ୍ ଟି ଆପଣଙ୍କୁ ଭଲ ଲାଗି ଥିବ । ସେୟାର କରିବାକୁ ଭୁଲିବେ ନାହିଁ ।

There are two types of people who are proud of money


1. One who earns by lying and deceit procedure.

How ??

There are people whose only job is to lie and cut money and do little and have a lot of art to earn more. They are certainly guilty of sin, but they have no money. In the end, he loses money due to illness, but he does not stop lying. No one can ever leave, and they are almost stingy. But the importance of this money does not last long.

2. Whose father, or grandparents, has more wealth.

How?
There will also be people who do not have resources of their own who can earn wealth by doing something. If he has shown his participation in his father’s business and grandfather’s immense wealth to others. The interest in that money also lasts for a few days. After that, like the sand of the sea. He also gradually dries up. In the end, only the body survives.

Never brag about your money. There is no money, nor will there ever be. Money never lasts forever. He will come and go. And never stay with a boastful person.

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ଜୀବନ ଅତି ମୂଲ୍ୟବାନ

ଯେଉଁଠି ସ୍ବପ୍ନ ଶେଷ ହୁଏ ସେଠୀ ଚିନ୍ତା ର ଦୁନିଆ ଜନ୍ମ ନିଏ।

ମଣିଷ ଅଧିକାଂଶ ସମୟ ଚିନ୍ତା ପାଇଁ ନିଜ ର ମୂଲ୍ୟବାନ ସମୟ କୁ ବେକାର କରି ଦିଅନ୍ତି।

ହେଲେ ସେମାନେ ଏହା ବୁଝିବାକୁ ଚେଷ୍ଟା କରୁ ନାହାନ୍ତି ଯେ ଜୀବନର ପ୍ରତ୍ୟେକ ଟି ମୁହୂର୍ତ୍ତ ମୂଲ୍ୟବାନ ମୁହୂର୍ତ୍ତ ।

କିପରି ??

ଆପଣ ଭଲ ଭାବରେ ଜାଣି ଛନ୍ତି ଯେ ଜୀବନ ଗୋଟିଏ ପାଣି ଫୋଟକା, କେତେବେଳେ କାହାର ସମୟ ଆସୁଛି କେହି ଜାଣି ନାହାଁନ୍ତି ।

ହଁ ଗୋଟିଏ କଥା ସତ୍ୟ ଏବଂ ସମସ୍ତଙ୍କୁ ଜଣା ଯେ ମୃତ୍ୟୁ ତ ନିଶ୍ଚିତ କିନ୍ତୁ ଆମେ ସେ ମୃତ୍ୟୁ କୁ ଚିନ୍ତାରେ ଏବଂ ବେକାର ରେ ଜୀବନ କୁ ନାସ କରି ଦେଉଛୁ ତାହା ଦୁଃଖର ବିଷୟ ଅଟେ ।

ଯଦି ସମୟ କୁ ଠିକ୍ ଭାବେ ଉପଯୋଗ କରିବା ଏବଂ ଚିନ୍ତା ମୁକ୍ତ ରହିବା ତେବେ ଯଦି ଜୀବନ ଚାଲିଯାଏ ତେବେ ଦୁଃଖ ଲାଗେନା ।

ନିଜ ଜୀବନର ମୂଲ୍ୟବାନ ସମୟ କୁ ଚିନ୍ତା ରେ ଏବଂ ବେକାର ରେ ଯିବାକୁ ଦିଅନ୍ତୁ ନାହିଁ ।

କାରଣ ଏହି ଜୀବନ ଆପଣଙ୍କୁ ପୁଣି ଥରେ ମିଳିବ ନାହିଁ ।

ଚିନ୍ତା ଛାଡ଼ନ୍ତୁ ଜୀବନ କୁ ଏକ ସୁନ୍ଦର ଭାବେ କରିବା ପାଇଁ ଉଚିତ୍ ପଦକ୍ଷେପ ନିଅନ୍ତୁ ।

ଆଶା କରୁଛି ଆପଣ ଜଣେ ସୁଦୃଢ଼ ପାଠକ ଅଟନ୍ତି ଏବଂ ଏପରି ମେସେଜ କୁ ସମସ୍ତଙ୍କୁ ସେୟାର କରିବାକୁ ଭୁଲିବେ ନାହିଁ ।

Respect is bigger or money ??



Relationships, where money is more important than relationships didn’t last long.


It is truly ironic in this world where a man looks for good relationships but relatives only look for money.

How long will it take for this money? Money has never existed or will exist.

If they have it, they cannot enjoy it, and if they don’t, then they beg for money again.

God also gives birth to a good relationship through money in some cruel places but that relationship is full of hypocrisy and greed.

For a few days, it goes well, but within a few days, the relationship begins to deteriorate.

In every case, only money is given priority. In the end, people become desperate to strengthen the relationship.

Even if he wanted to do something, he could not do it. All roads are closed.

The rest of the relatives near the eyes seem like normal events, but the wise man will tell anyone, it’s sad.


Finally, his very own person calls him useless and compares him just for a few bucks. Their lovely person made a mistake in recognizing his true identity.

Money is really big before human identity?? Are identity and honor nothing here??

Everyone has experienced this incident in their way. Someone can tell and someone hides?

What happens then? If he gradually changes over time, then it is good, otherwise, he can never know the good.

The person reading this message has also been a victim of such behavior in his relationship sometimes.

What will you do? Everyone here gives priority to money, how can you give importance to yourself?

So what should be done to such a person?? Or what needs to be introduced?? What name should be given to such a person?? Where only money is important instead of relationships.
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ମଣିଷ ର ସମ୍ମାନ ଅଧିକ ମହତ୍ତ୍ଵ ପୂର୍ଣ୍ଣ ନା ଟଙ୍କା ??

ଯେଉଁଠି ସମ୍ପର୍କ ଅପେକ୍ଷା ଟଙ୍କା କୁ ମହତ୍ତ୍ଵ ଦିଆଯାଏ ସେ ସମ୍ପର୍କ ବେଶୀ ଦିନ ଚାଲେ ନାହିଁ ।
ସତରେ ବିଡମ୍ବନା ଏ ଦୁନିଆର ଯେଉଁଠି ମଣିଷ ଖୋଜେ ଉତ୍ତମ ସମ୍ପର୍କ ମାତ୍ର ସମ୍ପର୍କୀୟା ଖୋଜନ୍ତି କେବଳ ଟଙ୍କା ।

ହେଲେ କେତେ ଦିନ ଏ ଟଙ୍କା ପାଇଁ ଝୁରିବ । ଟଙ୍କା କେବେ ରହିଛି ନା ରହିବ ।

ଯଦି ରହିଛି ତେବେ ଭୋଗ କରି ପାରିବ ନାହିଁ ଆଉ ଯଦି ନାହିଁ ତେବେ ପୁଣି ଟଙ୍କା ପାଇଁ ଗୁହାରୀ ଲଗାନ୍ତି।

ଭଗବାନ ମଧ୍ୟ ବଡ ନିଷ୍ଠୁର କିଛି ସ୍ଥଳେ ଟଙ୍କା ଆଳରେ ଗୋଟିଏ ଉତ୍ତମ ସମ୍ପର୍କ କୁ ଜନ୍ମ ଦିଅନ୍ତି କିନ୍ତୁ ସେ ସମ୍ପର୍କ ରେ ଖଳ କପଟ ଆଉ ଲୋଭ ଭରି ରହିଥାଏ ।

କିଛି ଦିନ ତ ଠିକ୍ ଠାକ୍ ଚାଲେ କିନ୍ତୁ ଅଳ୍ପ ଦିନ ଭିତରେ ସମ୍ପର୍କ ରେ ଦାଗ ଲାଗିବା ଆରମ୍ଭ ହୋଇଯାଏ ।

ପ୍ରତ୍ୟେକ କ୍ଷେତ୍ରରେ କେବଳ ଟଙ୍କା କୁ ପ୍ରାଧାନ୍ୟ ଦିଆଯାଏ । ଶେଷରେ ସମ୍ପର୍କ କୁ ମଜବୁତ୍ କରିବା ପାଇଁ ମଣିଷ ଟା ନିରୁପାୟ ହୋଇଯାଏ।

କିଛି କରିବା ପାଇଁ ଚାହିଁଲେ ମଧ୍ୟ କରି ପାରେନା । ତାର ସବୁ ରାସ୍ତା ବନ୍ଦ ହୋଇଯାଏ ।

ଆଖ ପାଖରେ ଥିବା ବାକି ଅନ୍ୟ ସମ୍ପର୍କୀୟା ଙ୍କୁ ସାଧାରଣ ଘଟଣା ଭଳି ଲାଗେ କିନ୍ତୁ ବିଚରା ମଣିଷ ଟି କାହାକୁ କହିବ, ତା ଦୁଃଖର କଥା।

  ଶେଷରେ ତାର ଅତି ନିଜର ଲୋକ ତାକୁ ବେକାର ବୋଲି କହିଦିଏ ଏବଂ ତୁଳନା କରିଦିଏ କେବଳ କିଛି ଟଙ୍କା ପାଇଁ । ମାତ୍ର ଏଠି ସମ୍ପର୍କୀୟା ଟି ତାର ଅସଲ ପରିଚୟ କୁ ଚିହ୍ନିବାରେ ଭୁଲ କରି ବସେ ।

ସତରେ ମଣିଷ ର ପରିଚୟ ଆଗରେ ଟଙ୍କା ବହୁତ୍ ବଡ ?? କଣ ଏଠି ପରିଚୟ ଏବଂ ସମ୍ମାନ କିଛି ନୁହେଁ ??

ଏହି ଘଟଣା ସମସ୍ତେ ନିଜ ନିଜର କିଛି ଏମିତି ସମୟରେ ଅନୁଭବ କରି ଥାନ୍ତି । କିଏ କହି ପାରେ ତ କିଏ ଲୁଚେଇ ରଖେ। 

ହେଲେ କଣ ହୁଏ ? ଯଦି ସମୟ ସେଥିରେ ସେ ଧିରେ ଧିରେ ବଦଳି ଯାଏ ତେବେ ଠିକ୍, ନହେଲେ ସେ କେବେ ଉତ୍ତମ ର ପରିଚୟ ପାଇ ପାରେନା।  

ଏହି ବାର୍ତ୍ତା ଟି ପଢୁଥିବା ବ୍ୟକ୍ତି ଜଣଙ୍କ ମଧ୍ୟ ନିଜ ସମ୍ପର୍କ ସହିତ ଏମିତି ବ୍ୟବହାର ର ଶିକାର କେବେ ନା କେବେ ହୋଇ ଥାନ୍ତି ।

ହେଲେ କଣ ଅବା ଆପଣ କରିବେ । ଏଠି ସମସ୍ତେ ଟଙ୍କା କୁ ପ୍ରାଧାନ୍ୟ ଦିଅନ୍ତି ପରା ଆପଣକୁ ମହତ୍ତ୍ଵ ଦେବେ କେମିତି ?

ତେବେ କଣ କରିବା ଦରକାର ଏମିତି ବ୍ୟକ୍ତି ଙ୍କୁ ?? ଅବା କଣ ପରିଚୟ ଦେବା ଦରକାର??  କଣ ନାମ ଦେବା ଦରକାର ଏମିତି ବ୍ୟକ୍ତି କୁ ??  ଯେଉଁଠି ସମ୍ପର୍କ ବଦଳରେ କେବଳ ଟଙ୍କା କୁ ମହତ୍ତ୍ଵ ଦିଅନ୍ତି ।
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ବର୍ତମାନ ନିଜ ନାମ ପ୍ରକାଶ ନ କରି ଏହି ମେସେଜ ର କମେଣ୍ଟ ବକ୍ସ ରେ ନିଜର ମତା ମତ ରଖନ୍ତୁ।  ମୋ ତରଫରୁ ଆପଣଙ୍କୁ କହିବାକୁ ବାଧ୍ୟ କରୁଛି ଯେ ନିଜ ମନରେ ଥିବା ଯେଉଁ ଶବ୍ଦ ଗୁଡ଼ିକ ଜଣେଇବାକୁ ବାଧ୍ୟ ହୁଅନ୍ତୁ। 

ସେ ବ୍ୟକ୍ତି ମାନଙ୍କୁ ମଧ୍ୟ ସେୟାର କରନ୍ତୁ ଯାହାକୁ ଆପଣ ଏହି ମେସେଜ ବିଷୟରେ ଜଣେଇବାକୁ ଚାହୁଁଛନ୍ତି ।

ବର୍ତମାନ ସମୟ ଆପଣଙ୍କ ର , କମେଣ୍ଟ କରିବାରେ ବିଳମ୍ବ କରନ୍ତୁ ନାହିଁ। 

Good Friends

Two friends lived in a village. They were very close friends. One is the Akash and the other is the Raj. Who could not live without seeing someone for a day? They go to school together every day, sit together and play together. The Raj does evil, but the Akash always tells him, “The Raj does not do this,” and the Akash always forbids him. The raj never listens to the Akash and the raj does not help the Akash with any problem. Akash was very brave. After the annual examination of the fifth standard, summer vacation started. Akash can’t swim in water but the Raj always says hey don’t be afraid come in the water I will teach you. Like a swimmer, if he leaves me in the middle of the water without teaching me, I will drown, he is never afraid of this. One day the Raj obeyed and the Akash went into the water. The Raj first held her hand and taught her but then let her go into deep water. The Akash does not touch his legs in the earth. The Raj came to the shore of the pond, changed his clothes, and left to go home. The Akash was screaming, save me, save me, but the Raj did not look back and walked towards the house. After some time, after trying hard and drinking some pond water, he reached the pond shore. Akash did not get angry with the Raj or tell anyone about this.

After a few days, Sunday came. The Raj said, “Come on, there is a jam tree near the forest. Go and eat.” Despite Akash’s refusal, the Raj dragged him away. Everyone is at home when it is sunny. Both of them reached the jam tree near the forest. There is jam but too much. Some of the children

fell on the ground and he gathered them and ate them, but he wanted to eat more. The Raj saw some stones lying nearby, he picked up the stones and hit the tree, but there was nothing. At this time, Raj’s stones fall into the nearby bushes and sometimes go into the forest. After some time, hearing their noise and the sound of falling stones, two wolves came. Seeing the wolf, both of them got scared, and both of them started running to opposite sides. Wolves also started chasing him. After a short distance, the Raj tripped over a stone and fell, hitting his head and fainting. The Raj who runs before the sky does not know how to speak. Suddenly, without hearing a sound from their backside, when he looked back, Raj was far away and the wolves surrounded him and were biting Raj’s legs and hands. Seeing this, Akash was very scared, he went out to run but he could not run. On one side is the fear of the wolf and on the other side is the life of the Raj. He decided that I should save Raj’s life but there was a lot of fear in his heart. Akash gathered his courage and ran towards the wolves screaming, picking up the stones nearby, and started hitting them. Until then, the wolves were not going away, but because of the repeated hitting of stones, the wolves were left in fear. The Akash began to lift the Raj.

After a few minutes, Raj’s parents came and the wolf remembered the words and started to get scared. Akash said the wolves are gone. The Raj asked Akash how did you see me when you were running ahead. Akash said after you fainted the wolves started biting you. I was afraid but I came back for your life because you are my best friend. Hearing this, Raj asked Akash, you are my true friend. The Raj said if you wanted you could have left me and today my life was saved by you. Then both of them came to the village, Raj’s father heard this and thanked Akash and Raj took medicine and an injection and after a few days, he was fine. Later, the relationship between the two families became very close. The Raj never leaves the Akash alone. Lived together all the time. They always helped each other.

What can be learned from this story??
1. It is not permissible to commit adultery with someone that causes harm to others.
2. You should always help in times of trouble.
3. Do not have bad feelings towards anyone.

दोस्त या और कुछ

नमस्कार दोस्तों आज कुछ अलग लिखने की कोशिश की है…

कुछ के मन में यह सवाल उठता है, लेकिन न कोई पूछता है और न ही कोई पूछ सकता है…
मैंने थोड़ा लिखना शुरू किया लेकिन कल रात मेरे एक करीबी दोस्त “संतोष कुमार” ने फिर इस बारे में पूछा। फिर मैंने उन्हें इस प्रश्न की पूरी जानकारी दी।
मेरा मित्र इस जानकारी से संतुष्ट था। आशा है आपको भी इस जानकारी से संतुष्ट होंगे।
तो चलते हैं…।
मैं नीलमाधव हूं और मेरे ब्लॉग पर आपको

स्वागत है और चलिए आज की यह अच्छी ज्ञान आपके साथ शेयर करने जा रहा हूं ।
प्रश्न है:
क्या प्रेमी दोस्त बन सकता है??????
बहुत सारे उत्तर हैं लेकिन मैं संक्षेप में समझाने की कोशिश करूंगा …
इन सबका मूल कारण लालच है।
कैसे और क्या?
आपको उत्तर धीरे-धीरे पता चल जाएगा।
• पहला, एक दोस्त प्रेमी बन सकता है, लेकिन एक प्रेमी कभी दोस्त नहीं बन सकता।
• आम तौर पर कहा जाए तो रिश्ता निभाने वाले व्यक्ति पर पूरी तरह से निर्भरता है।
• वह खुद कभी-कभी इस बात को लेकर चिंतित रहता है कि वह कैसे रिश्ते को बहाल करने की कोशिश करेगा।
• क्या वह उसे एक दोस्त या प्रेमी के रूप में स्वीकार करेगा?
• अगर रिश्ता प्यार का रूप ले चुका है तो एक अच्छे दोस्त का काम हो गया है।
• एक अच्छे रिश्ता शुरू होता है। दूसरों से जताने के लिए हम भले ही उस रिश्ते को दोस्ती कहें लेकिन सच तो यह है कि वह प्यार है।
• उसे दोस्त का एक गिफ्ट कहना बुरा नहीं है, लेकिन उसके लिए प्यार दिल में बना रहता है। उसे दोस्त कैसे माने ??
• हाँ, यह संभव है यदि हम अपने मन की स्थिति और भावनाओं को बहुत दूर जाने से पहले बदल सकें।
• फिर प्रेमी रिश्ते से छुटकारा पा सकता है और दोस्ती का रिश्ता कायम रख सकता है।
• लेकिन यह सत्य यह है कि मित्र प्रेमी बन जाते हैं। उसे अपने दोस्त की अहमियत याद आती है।
• हम लाख कोशिशों के बाद भी अपने प्रेमी से छुटकारा नहीं पा सकते हैं।
• अंत में उसे रिश्ता तोड़ना ही पड़ता है या किसी कारणवश टूट जाता है।
• इसका मतलब है कि यह रिश्ते का आखिरी पड़ाव है। अगर इससे भी आगे बढ़े तो लड़ाई-झगड़ा होगा या कुछ गलत कदम उठाने शुरू हो जाएंगे।
• फिर गलत कदम का समाधान नहीं है। इसलिए सबसे अच्छा तरीका है कि आप एक समझौते पर आएं और उस रिश्ते को जारी न रहने दें जिससे वह प्यार करता है।
• अगर वह दोस्त है, तो उसे दोस्त बनाने की कोशिश करें।
• मित्रों के संबंधों में कोई समस्या नहीं आएगी।
• शुरू से ही इन सब बातों का एक मूल कारण “लालच” है।
• लालच दोस्ती में कम और प्यार में ज्यादा होता है।
• इसीलिए शास्त्रों में कहा गया है कि लोभ का आखरी द्वार मृत्यु है ।
• हां दोस्त के लिए लोभ है लेकिन प्रेमी के लिए लोभ बहुत कम है।
• यह केवल व्यक्ति की गलती नहीं है। प्रेमी की भी कई गलतियां होती हैं।
• क्योंकि व्यक्ति रिश्ते को दोस्त के रूप में देखता है।
• फिर वह (प्रेमी) इस रिश्ते को प्यार में बदलने के लिए मजबूर करता है। या व्यक्ति को प्रेम का रिश्ता नाम लेने के लिए बाध्य करता है।
• यहां दोनों तरफ से इच्छा जगाई जाती है। किसी के पास कम है तो किसी के पास ज्यादा।
• लेकिन यह प्रेम का रूप धारण कर लेता है और प्रेमी बन जाता है। दोस्त नहीं।
इस तथ्य में बस इतना ही है
जैसा कि आप देख सकते हैं, इस डेटा में केवल एक शब्द है जो रिश्ते को बदलता है।
वो है “लालच”।
कम लालची दोस्त !!
और इच्छा ज्यादा हो तो प्रेम !!
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तो मुझे आशा है की आपको जानकारी पसंद आई होगी।
अगर पसंद आए तो अपनों के साथ शेयर करना न भूलें।
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पैसे की महत्व

कालिया और सुमंत मार्केट में मिले। दोनो दोस्त है, नाश्ता स्टॉल के पास। शाम हो रहा था, अभी अभी सुमंत को ओडिशा पुलिस में कांस्टेबल की नौकरी मिला था । प्रशिक्षण खतम हो चुका था। लेकिन कालिया गांव में अनाज और चावल तथा कभी कभी अन्य कारोबार भी करता था । मात्र दोनो का मासिक भुगतान करीब आश पास रहता था । मगर पैसा हरवक्त नौकरी वाले के पास ही दिखाई देता है।

भले ही हर महीने या दो महीने में खाते में पैसा आता है उसको कोई नहीं पूछता । इधर घर कैसे चलता है सब भगवान के ऊपर निर्भर है ।

तभी कालिया बोलने लगा अरे तेरी नौकरी की पार्टी कहाँ है? सुमंत ने कहा, “पार्टी करते है ना, क्यों नहीं , कब करना है बोलो, अभी नाश्ता खाएं ?” कालिया ने कहा, ठीक है मगर में जितना खाऊंगा उतना देगा ना ?? सुमंत ने कहा अरे खाओ भाई, जितना खाना है उतना खाओ । दूसरी ओर, यह सच था की, सुमंत के पॉकेट में केवल 50 की नोट ही था । और उसने सोचा। यदि जरुरत पड़े तो फोन पे अथवा गूगल पे से भुगतान कर दूंगा ।

कालिया नखरेबाज था और फ्री का नाश्ता मिले तो 2 से 5 प्लेट खा लेगा और इस बात की कोई गारंटी नहीं है कि एक बार वह बात करना शुरू कर देता है तो कभी खत्म होगा कोई गारंटी नहीं । कालिया खाने लगता है इसी बीच सुमंत नाश्ता करके खड़ा रहा । कालिया खा रहा था और और बह खा 4 प्लेट नाश्ता खा गया और आखरी में बोला भाई पार्टी बाकी रह गया । पार्टी कब होगी?
सुमंत कहने लगा कि अपने सभी दोस्तों को ग्रुप में मेसेज कर दो और एक दिन तय करते हैं। उस दिन पार्टी करेंगे। इतना कहकर दोनों ने आपस को अलविदा कह कर निकल गए।

अगले दिन सुबह सुबह कालिया का पोटी की नदी बहना शुरू होगया। 3 बजे उठा और लैट्रिन की ओर भागा। उसने अपना पेट पकड़ के बैठ गया । उसको याद आने लगा की कल रात मैंने मुफ्त में नाश्ता खाया था और उसके सारे परिणाम आज निकल रहा है और मैंने जो मिर्चें की चटनी मैंने कल रात खाईं थीं बह आज निकल रहा है । और बह सुबह से बिस्तर पर पेट पकड़ कर बैठा रहा। कुछ देर बाद उसको पत्नी अपने गांव से वापस आ गई क्योंकि आज बुधवार है क्योंकि गुरुवार को लक्ष्मी की पूजा होगी।

कालिया को देखकर पत्नी ने पूछा कि क्या हुआ तुमको? कालिया ने कहा कि लालची खाने की वजह से ऐसा हुआ है। पत्नी ने पूछा कि कहां रेस्टोरेंट में खाना खाया और और कहीं ? और तुम्हारी वासना नहीं मिटेगी। जब फ्री का मिलेगा तुम खुदको रोक नहीं पाते हो, इतना कहकर महिला ओआरएस का पानी कालिया के हाथ में देकर किचन में चली गई।

देखते देखते, 10 बज गया था। लग रहा था डायरिया तो नहीं हो गया। तब तक शौचालय में 7 बार पानी खत्म हो चुका था। स्थिति असंभव है। अंत में चाचा के बेटा भाई कालिया को मेडिकल लेकर पहुंचा । वहां कालिया ने सब सच सच कहा। डॉक्टर ने मुस्कराते हुए कहा। बस यहाँ एक ग्लूकोज की बोतल लगा दो और सब ठीक हो जाएगा। अंत में कालिया को एक ग्लूकोज की बोतल लगी और दो इंजेक्शन लगे। कालिया थोड़ा थका हुआ अवस्था में अस्पताल से बाहर आता है। अचानक सुमंत दिख गया। सुमंत ने पूछा अरे क्या हुआ तुझे? कालिया ने कहा क्या कहूं भाई कल का शाम का नाता आज महंगा पड़ गया।

तू मुझे माफ कर देना भाई। आज सुबह से पेट खराब है। अब यहां आकर ग्लूकोज की बोतल चढ़ने के बाद थोड़ा ठीक है। भाई सच कहूँ तो, कल खाते समय तुम्हें बुरा लग रहा होगा इसके लिए मैं एक बार फिर से माफी मांगता हूं। पैसा तेरे लिए जितना महत्वपूर्ण है उतना मेरे लिए भी लेकिन तेरे साथ इस तरह का व्यवहार करना मेरे लिए सही नहीं था।
तो चलिए, अब से आगे हम कुछ खाना खायेंगे तो उसका भुगतान हम दोनों मिलकर करेंगे ।

सुमंत भी थोड़ा मुस्कुराया और बोला, चलो, कुछ नहीं, मैं बुरा क्यों सोचूं। ठीक हो जाओ और एक अच्छी पार्टी करते हैं।

वे दोनों हंसने लगे और अपने-अपने घर चले गए।

तो यह कालिया और सुमंत के कुछ पल था। अच्छा लगे तो कृपया शेयर करें। हालाँकि, दूसरे लोगों के पैसे को नज़रअंदाज़ करना कभी-कभी हमें महंगा पड़ जाता है।

आखरी तक पढ़ने केलिए आपको धन्यवाद

शेयर करना ना भूलें…

Importance of money

Kalia and Sumant met at a market nearby tiffin stall. In the evening, Sumant got a job as a Constable of the Odisha Police. After completing Training he is now on casual leave. But in the village Kalia trades in grain and other seasons.

Both income monthly salaries are the same, but the money appears with the govt. employer.

Every month or two months, the money comes into the account rather late. But how to sustain a home not ask anyone.

Just then, Kalia said, Hey, where is your party? Sumant said, “Let’s have a party, or shall we eat now evening breakfast?” Kalia answered yes let’s eat as much as you can give all money?? Sumant said hey eat, eat as much as you eat. On the other hand, it is true that

Sumant has only 50 rupee notes in his pocket. He thought. No problem, I m paid by phone pay or Google pay, if he eats more breakfasts.

Kalia is a picky eater, and if he gets free, he gets 2 to 5 plates. And there is no guarantee it will ever be finished once it is started talking. Kalia starts eating, meanwhile Sumant is standing after eating a plate of breakfast. Kalia ate and ate, ate 4 plates , and said bro, the party is left. When will the party be held?
Sumant says you spread the messages all our friends in a group and fixes it one day. Do it that day. Having said this, both of them said goodbye.

The next day early morning Kalia’s stomach ache started he was run to the toilet. Got up at 3 am and ran to the latrine continually. He holds his stomach and sits down on the bed. He remembered that last night I ate free breakfast and all the consequences. And most of all, he remembered that the chilies that I ate last night were coming out, and he was sitting on the bed from morning holding his stomach. After some time his wife came back from her village because today is Wednesday. After all, worship Laxmi puja on the next day.

Seeing Kalia, his wife, asked what happened to you? Kalia said that it happened because of greedy eating. The woman asked where had eaten at the restaurant. And your lust will not go away. After saying this, the wife went to the kitchen with ORS water in her hand.

It’s 10 o’clock. Then the question is like diarrhea. By that time, the latrine has run out of water 7 times. The condition is out of control. Finally, the uncle’s son took Kalia and went to the medical. There Kalia spoke the truth. The doctor said with a smile. Just feed a bottle here and everything will be fine. Finally, Kalia got a glucose bottle and two injections. Kalia comes out of the hospital slightly tired. Suddenly Sumant appeared. Sumant asked what happened to you again? What can I say, brother, yesterday’s evening breakfast with you became expensive today?

Please forgive me, brother. Today I have had a severe stomachache since morning due to four plates of breakfast. Now after coming here and feeding the glucose bottle, it’s a little bit better. Brother, let’s be honest, I know you feel bad while eating yesterday. But I apologize once again. Money is as important to you as it is to me, but it was not right for me to treat you like this.
So let’s go, from now on, if we want to eat something, then both of us will pay for it.

Sumant also smiled a little and said, come on, nothing, why should I think bad. Get ready and let’s have a good party.

They both laughed again, and went back to their respective homes.

So it was a few moments of Kalia and Sumanta. Please share if you like it. However, ignoring other people’s money sometimes costs us dearly.

Thank you